Preparing Emotionally for the Holidays – By Shirley Cress Dudley, MA LPC
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The holidays can be a time of great stress and also depression for both adults and children. Memories of the past, both positive and negative, can bring sadness into your newly blended family.
Talk about the pain
Children sometimes have trouble expressing their emotions. Little ones may “act out” instead of being able to express their feelings. For younger children, it’s helpful for parents to talk to them and explain that- “I know things are different this year, and everything’s a bit unfamiliar. Your Mom and I still love you very much. The holidays will be different, and we aren’t married anymore, but you are still loved.” Read More→
Time For Mom – By Shirley Cress Dudley, MA LPC
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Being a mom is tough… being a stepmom is really tough. You want to keep your husband happy, his kids happy, your kids happy (if you have biological kids) and usually anyone else that comes within 3 feet of you happy. Admit it… you’re the one in the family that’s taking care of everyone -except yourself.
If you keep running and running, making sure that the whole world is happy, and forget yourself, you are going to burn out and be worthless to your blended family and to yourself. If you truly want to love your family, you need to learn how to love yourself. Read More→